Dr Kilbey is a consultant clinical psychologist specialising in children and works both in the NHS and privately. Her work focuses primarily on children with complex neuro-developmental difficulties, including autism, ADHD and learning disabilities. She runs her own independent clinical practice. In addition, she offers a comprehensive school consultation service that includes classroom observations and academic and school-based assessments.
A highly regarded expert witness, she has made more than 150 court-appointed assessments for the family courts. Most recently, she was commended by a senior judge for the clarity and depth of her evidence provided in court.
Additionally, Dr Kilbey was the resident on-screen expert on Channel 4’s The Secret Life of 4, 5 & 6 Year-Olds. She was involved in every series of the show and provided insight into the behaviour and psychological world of the children. She is also the author of the book Unplugged Parenting.